The first night of the wedding is always full of ambiguity and tension, because the couple’s first sex life is so important, the husband how to do to let his wife eliminate concerns and have an orgasm?
Nowadays, with the gradual spread of sexual knowledge, many newlyweds already know that their hymen will break the first time they have sex and should be extra careful. But there are still many grooms who can’t control themselves and thrust and pump too hard. This is not only a matter of strong or weak libido, but also because the muscle tension and movement at the beginning of intercourse can promote orgasm, so the groom always does it involuntarily.
Conversely, because the bride is generally passive and endures a lack of vigorous muscle movement, she is also less likely to reach orgasm. A woman’s orgasm can greatly reduce the pain and bleeding of a hymen rupture. If the bride does not reach orgasm, she will be extremely averse to the groom’s vigorous intercourse and may experience temporary sexual apathy or even hurt feelings.
The groom should know that a woman’s orgasm is primarily due to proper stimulation of her clitoris (above the vaginal opening where the two labia meet). However, the clitoris is normally covered by the clitoral hood and is only exposed when a woman is sexually aroused. Therefore, it is difficult to bring a bride to orgasm through intercourse without waiting for her to become aroused. The bride’s clitoris is not easily stimulated unless the woman’s legs are spread wide apart. So whether the groom’s movements are violent or not doesn’t really play a big role in whether the bride reaches orgasm.
Some grooms think that the deeper and harder they penetrate, the easier it is for the bride to be satisfied. In fact, this is generally true only after marriage, and not only because of the deeper penetration, but also because the husband’s pubic hair can stimulate his wife’s clitoris. For first-time sex, the groom should first gently stroke the clitoris (making sure to lubricate it) and wait until it is sufficiently erect and enlarged before beginning intercourse. During intercourse, the groom should be careful to rub and rub, not just thrust. In addition, it is best to insert once during the first intercourse and then use other sexual practices so that the bride has a small period of time to recover and adapt after the hymen is split.
Some brides can also stimulate the clitoris themselves or adopt better sexual positions. Of course, brides who are having orgasms for the first time can have fun or be more liberal. Sex is incredibly rich and not just penetrative intercourse. A woman’s nipples and breasts are the second most sexually sensitive area on the surface of her body, and proper stimulation of these areas can also quickly elicit a response. Many women can achieve orgasm with just the right stimulation. Women have more sexually sensitive areas on the surface of their bodies than men, and they are more widely distributed, often varying from person to person. In addition to the groom being more fully caressed, the bride should also overcome her shyness and take the initiative to guide the groom to enjoy the pleasure of sex.
Husbands should never by their own nature, to give more love to his wife, then the first night of the wedding will become the couple’s best night, at the same time, for the future of the couple’s relationship also has a great impact.